so excited that you took the plunge. This might be the first thing you’ve done for you in a long time. So be good to yourself and enjoy the process. Let’s get started!
Download your 30 Days of Yes challenge guidebook and journal below. The exercises are chunked into weekly lessons that are practical and mama-friendly. This is not designed to be “another task” on your list. One of the biggest lessons I learned is that any kind of change takes discipline. You must be willing to give yourself at least 30 minutes a day, for the next 30 days, to see results. Look out for weekly emails from yours truly as I’ll be guiding you along the way.
30 Days of Yes CHALLENGE GUIDEBOOK
30 Daily Practices for Mending a Broken Heart
THE SINGLE MAMA LAMA PDF JOURNAL
This journal is your new LIFE MANUAL and will lead you to GREATER CLARITY if you treasure it
as such. Download and keep it in a safe place for frequent reference.
JOIN THE SML PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
Gain access to a community of moms who can help support you through your journey.
People have told me that I’m nuts for doing this, but I know firsthand that resources are very limited as a single mom, so the 30-Days of Yes Challenge is free.
I wanted to create a tool that EVERY mom could use to:
Kill the toleranza in their life
Quiet the noise of the inner critic
Begin living a more honest and joyful life
Having said that…
when I was on the fence about my marriage (especially after the affair), God only knew I needed a whole lot more than a guide and a journal. I desperately needed to:
- Hear from other women and the exact steps they took to get through
- Have some reassurance that I wasn’t going to screw up my life or my kids by either staying or leaving
- Seek help from a professional who could help me piece things back together
- Know what resources were available to me and how I would financially manage on my own
- Feel supported and encouraged rather than judged by people
- Hear from women who came out okay on the other side, who survived, and who even found love again
There was a time in my life when I felt like a mop. Like someone removed all the bones from my body, wrung me out, and used me as a mop. I was lifeless and hopeless. Like many women I was deceived by my husband. Tamika was a constant during those trying times and through her insightful questions, caring demeanor, and most importantly, her own examples, I was able to overcome the most difficult time in my life. Her affirmations and guidance strengthened my desire to pursue and land my dream career and partner.
Tanya Chamadia
So I cooked up something a little more intense! How to Get Revenge on My Cheating Husband,
is a step-by-step 6-week course for mom’s who are struggling to overcome infidelity, and who are desperate to find strength and confidence. If you’re a mom who just learned about your husband’s affair and haven’t a clue where to begin then this course is especially for you. If infidelity has always been an issue in your marriage and you’ve had enough, then this course is for you as well.
The first thing you’ll absolutely need is a copy of my book The 5 Conversations You Must have Before Leaving. These are game-changing conversations that every woman should have before stepping into the unknown. This book alone could save you years of potential heartache and confusion.
Secondly, this program is all about staying honest so I give you full permission to be your unshowered, tearful, unkempt hot mess of a self, because that’s the best place to start. Turn up the Mary J. Blige, Alanis Morisette, whatever speaks to your soul these days, put it on repeat and let the pain rip you wide open, because getting honest with yourself and FEELING YOUR WAY TO CLARITY is so much more productive than PRETENDING and keeping things in. And don’t worry, you WILL NOT stay in this place for long. Towards the end of this program you’ll regain your strength, you will have an entirely new perspective, and you’ll have the tools you need to make the most loving decision for you and your kids.
This course is packed with resources, exercises, community support, powerful success stories, everything you’ll need to get through these rough times.
You’ll Get the SML Pulse Challenge
Journal, Access to the Private FB Group, PLUS….
6 Modules that Reveal EXACT STEPS for gaining more Confidence, Clarity, and Courage
Module 1: Overcoming the Shell Shock
-What to do within the first 24 hours of finding out
-Who to tell and who NOT to tell
-The critical questions to ask that could change EVERYTHING
-The most common mistake to avoid like the plague
Module 2: Information Gathering and Minesweep
-Calming the storm of obsessional thinking
-The 5 Conversations you must have before (if) Leaving
-Going Deep: Shame, Insecurity, and Blind Hope
Module 3: Getting your Motherfu*#in Sexy Back
-Taking your Inner Critic for a Ride
-Establishing your A-Team
-The Power of Two
Module 4: What If’s and All Things Legal
-Getting to Know your Non-negotiables
-Loss/Gain Analysis
-Answers to the Most Common Legal Questions
Module 5: The ART of Forgiveness
-How to Let Go of Damaging Beliefs
-Get out the Pen: We’re writing a New Story
-The Joy of Self-Love and Preservation
Module 6: A BRAND New You
-The 5 Greatest Regrets of the Dying
-Time/Energy Drain Analysis
-Discovering your Strengths
-The Power of NO
BONUS Interviews with Three Phenomenal Women including
A mom and trusted divorce attorney who lays EVERYTHING on the table regarding divorce and separation. A mom turned business mogul who shares her amazing story of growing a simple idea into a multiple 6-figure business, and how you can do the same! Finally, if you’re stuck wondering “Should I Stay or Should I Go?” you won’t want to miss this lively discussion with two moms who made two very different decisions.
BONUS Copy of My Book The 5 Conversations You Must Have Before Leaving
The 5 Conversations You Must Have Before Leaving, is a must read for women who feel stuck in their relationships or any situation and aren’t sure how to move forward.
2 Private Sessions
You’ll get two 15 minute one-on-one debriefing sessions with yours truly to discuss your progress and roadblocks.
It takes my clients on average eight sessions to experience the breakthroughs I know you’ll have with this program. That’s a $1,200 investment! And let’s not even discuss fees to retain legal counsel or even a consultation.
You can’t put a price tag on peace of mind, especially when you’re dealing with major life transitions.
The day I decided to end my marriage was epic. It was like stepping into the deepest darkest water. I honestly thought I would drown.
There was no way I could have survived without the support of a community and would have paid anything to have had a road map. So whether you join this community or not, don’t even attempt to do this alone. You are 100% worth the investment, and you need the support and accountability of others.
Anytime I spend money on myself, especially as a single mom, I like to know my return on investment. I have packed so much into this course that I know you’ll experience one breakthrough after another. Having said that If you don’t, I will gladly refund your investment.
HANDS DOWN!!!
Package Value: $1800